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Did you ever go out to dinner with a group of people and notice that everyone has almost the exact same engagement ring? If you are bored by the idea of wearing the same style engagement ring as the rest of the world then why not go for something bespoke? It is, after all, the most special piece of jewellery you\u2019ll ever own. Below is a quick guide on what to expect and what to look out for when commissioning an engagement ring\u2026 Start by trying on lots of rings. \u00a0There will be aspects of each ring that you like and don\u2019t like and this information will be vital when deciding on the perfect design for you. \u00a0Your jeweller will be able to guide you and ask the right questions to get a clear idea of what you would like.<\/p>\n Be sure you can visualise the end product. \u00a0The designer should be able to illustrate all aspects of the design by showing you samples, drawings and pictures. \u00a0A fantastic tool for this service is computer aided design \u2013 rings can be created in a design software programme and rendered so that you can see an exact image of how the ring will look from all angles before it is made.<\/p>\n There is so much choice when it comes to coloured gemstones and it is a great way to add your style to your engagement ring. \u00a0However, choose colour carefully – gemstones are natural and therefore no two are exactly the same. \u00a0While diamonds are graded in every aspect (colour, cut, clarity, etc.), coloured stones are not always quantified in the same way. \u00a0If you are choosing a coloured stone you should see the actual stone before it is set in the ring. \u00a0Most jewellers will order 2 or 3 stones for you to choose from.<\/p>\n Your engagement ring will only stand alone for so long; ultimately you will wear it with a wedding ring. \u00a0Make sure that a wedding ring is designed at the same time as the engagement ring \u2013 you don\u2019t have to order both straight away but you do have to like how they look together.<\/p>\n Most importantly, don\u2019t be afraid to be different. \u00a0It is important that your engagement ring suits your style\u2026 maybe you don\u2019t want a ring with a stone in it, maybe you prefer a matte finish, perhaps you want one ring to be your wedding ring and engagement ring combined. \u00a0There are no rules! \u00a0Don\u2019t worry about what others think; at the end of the day it is you that will be wearing it for the rest of your life!<\/p>\n The million dollar question\u2026 What if I don\u2019t like it? \u00a0Before ordering, discuss with your jeweller what the options are in the unlikely event that you don\u2019t like the ring. \u00a0Metal can be melted down and reworked and stones can be reset. \u00a0If you have followed all of the above steps you hopefully will love the end product but the more comfortable you feel about the bespoke process the better. \u00a0If you have reassurance that the ring can be remade for minimal cost it will make the process a lot less daunting.<\/p>\n
\nWant something designed \u2013 ask a designer!
\nFirst things first – choose a jeweller that specialises in design and bespoke jewellery. \u00a0You wouldn\u2019t go to a high street clothes shop to ask about having a wedding dress made for you \u2013 the same applies here. \u00a0A jeweller that specialises in customised engagement rings<\/a> will be able to ask you the right questions so that they can design the perfect ring for you.<\/p>\n![\"Going](\"https:\/\/weddingdates-wp-ie.s3.eu-west-1.amazonaws.com\/2013\/10\/image.png\" "\\"Going")
<\/h2>\nTry, try, try!<\/h2>\n
A picture speaks a thousand words<\/h2>\n
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Wedding bells<\/h2>\n
Be unique<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nBetter to be safe than sorry<\/h2>\n