Normally being asked to be a bridesmaid is an honor. We would be dead chuffed if any of our pals included us in her inner circle. But things can quickly turn nasty when the bride completely loses the run of herself and becomes the ultimate diva! FYI – here are 5 things you should never say to your bridesmaid! You may just end up a lone wolf at your hen party with this carry on!
Sure, No One Will Be Looking At You Anyway
Let’s get one thing straight. She will be in the wedding pictures too and standing at the alter in front of the whole congregation. Obviously she will want to be looking and feeling her best too. An unhappy and frumpy gal in your bridal party will ruin your wedding day atmosphere. Be the best friend ever by choosing stunning dresses that will compliment your own look.
You Could Do With Loosing Those Last Few Pounds
First of all you picked a bright pink dress – the colour which you know she has despised since she was a least four years old. Then you opted for satin fabric and a figure hugging fit which shows up every lump and bump. So, no it’s not okay to tell her to hit the gym to lose those ‘stubborn’ pounds before your big day. And before you even ask, it’s not okay to ask her to pay for the monstrosity either!!
You’re Single, Sure Why Would You Need A Plus One?
She already felt a twinge of sadness when you announced you were leaving the single sisterhood. And now you’re twisting the knife by telling her only married guests are allowed to bring a plus one to your reception. You must be an imposter because under normal circumstances you wouldn’t even dream of being such a bossy boots.
I Can’t Wait For The Hen In Marbella
Take into account the cost of actually going to weddings nowadays. Especially if a number of your close friends have set their date in the same year. Don’t pressure your friends into an expensive party abroad, if you really want one, take it upon yourself to organise. Anyway, you should be lucky your main ladies are even considering throwing you a party after all your recent bridezilla behaviour!
My Wedding, My Wedding… My Wedding
Your bridesmaid has a life too you know! Give your motor mouth a break every once in a while and check in to see how she’s doing. Just because you are currently full-steam ahead in wedding mode, doesn’t mean everyone else needs to hear about it 24/7.
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