The after party has firmly secured its place in every couple’s wedding weekend. Hugely popular across the pond and a great ice-breaker for both families, we absolutely love the idea of a rehearsal dinner. If you are considering throwing a pre-wedding soiree, here’s a guide for everything you need to know.
What Exactly is a Rehearsal Dinner?
The rehearsal involves a run-through of your ceremony ahead of the big day. This includes each member of your bridal party and family or friends with assigned tasks. The dinner takes place following your practice and is the perfect chance for everyone to get to know each other ahead of your big day.
Who Hosts it
As tradition goes, the bride’s family are lumbered with the final wedding bill while the groom’s parents typically host the rehearsal dinner. But we say scrap these rules. It is the year 2015 after all! Take charge by organising the meal yourself. This way it can tie in with your wedding theme as you see fit and you won’t feel guilty about adding another figure to the rents’ never-ending list of costs.
Venue and Style
Ultimately, your rehearsal dinner can be as informal or extravagant as you wish. It’s officially a sneak peek of what’s to come over your wedding weekend. However, do bare in mind, you don’t want it to overshadow your special day. A family barbecue with a self-serve station is a great way for the whole family to relax casually.
If you are staying at your wedding venue the night before exchanging vows, ask your wedding coordinator if it’s possible to reserve an area for a traditional meal. Both dining options at the Radisson Blu St Helen’s Hotel offer the perfect restaurant setting for you to celebrate with your loved ones in style. The award-winning Talavera serves authentic Italian cuisine made from the highest quality ingredients and private areas are available on request for groups of 15 or more. For something a little more luxurious, bask in the surroundings of Le Panto. High ceilings and beautiful views of the landscaped gardens through the French windows will set the perfect ambience for your night.
Who Makes The Guest List?
Outside immediate family and those involved in the bridal party, your pre-celebration bash is a fabulous way to welcome any relatives travelling from abroad to join in the festivities. If they are popping over for a flying visit it’s a lovely way to catch up over food and drinks before the madness begins. They will really appreciate such a thoughtful gesture. According to tradition, an invitation should also be offered to your local priest or officiator of your ceremony.
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